My Husband Spent 16 Years Trying to Have a Child With Me—Then 26 Days After Our Son Was Born, He Chose an 18-Year-Old Girl and Walked Away

“Was I bad?”

“No.”

“Was I stupid?”

I stared at him.

“Who told you that?”

He shrugged.

“Nobody.”

I could see the fear in his eyes.

So I leaned forward.

“You listen to me.”

He nodded.

“You were never the problem.”

“Then why?”

I didn’t know how to explain adultery to a seven-year-old.

I didn’t know how to explain selfishness.

Or vanity.

Or the strange hunger some people have to feel young even when they destroy everything around them.

So I told him the simplest truth.

“Sometimes adults make selfish choices.”

“Did Daddy make one?”

“Yes.”

He was quiet.

Then he asked: