I Co-Signed My Daughter’s $341,600 Mortgage and Loaned Her Husband $75,000 for His Business—Then He Told Us We Couldn’t See the Grandchildren

“I understand.”

“Not because of the note.”

Craig looked at me.

“Then why?”

“Because children shouldn’t grow up thinking grandparents are responsible for keeping their parents’ finances stable.”

Craig looked down.

For a while, nobody spoke.

Then he asked:

“What happens if the refinance fails?”

I answered honestly.

“Then we have another conversation.”

“And if I can’t make the business payments?”

“Another conversation.”

“And if everything falls apart?”

I looked at him.

“Then we’ll deal with what actually happened instead of pretending everything is fine.”

He nodded.

I slid the paper toward him.

“Here’s the other condition.”

He looked at me.